Whenever we're faced with a problem in life, our immediate natural reaction would be to find a solution that will either mitigate it or end it for good. Suppose you have a fever, and it's one that has arisen because of an infection inside your body - the fever is a symptom of a deeper problem; though, the fever by itself is a problem. Now, what would be a solution to that fever?
Well, one individual could see it fit to take Paracetamol and curb the fever, whereas another could decide to opt for a more thorough approach - go for a check up, discover the infection, and treat for the infection These are both solutions that remedy the fever.
Premature ejaculation (PE) is just like the fever-infection example I just gave. A man's inability to control his sexual arousal response to the extent that he cannot choose when to ejaculate during sex is the "infection"; the fast ejaculations during sexual encounters are the "fever" - they are the symptoms of much deeper problem (PE) rooted in the psychology and biology of the afflicted man.
And just as in the case of the fever, there are several solutions to the problem of fast ejaculations during sex. There are solutions that will delay the ejaculations; and there are solutions that will attack the "infection" (PE), and, in the process, remedying the fast ejaculations as well.
In this article I want to focus on remedying the fever- on ways to delay your fast ejaculations. I'm not talking about pills or sprays or desensitizing creams. I am, instead, talking about more natural ways of going about delaying ejaculation, specifically by employing the right positions during sex.
Yes, some positions tend to make a man climax less rapidly than others, allowing for passion to escalate on a much slower pace and keep you going for longer. Which are these positions? Let's take a quick look at three which will immediately help boost your endurance in bed.
The first position to try involves entering her from the back. Your woman lies down on her side facing slightly downwards. Lifting up her top leg from behind, penetrate her. It may feel a little tight in her vagina in this position, but once she is warmed up to it, it becomes more pleasurable. Many men find this position very helpful in delaying ejaculation.
A second one would be for you to sit down with your legs crossed as she sits on top of you with her legs straddling your hips. This is great because you can now focus on stimulating her back or breasts and take your focus away from the act of penetration which is now under her control.
The last position to try out is the missionary position but with a little twist to it. Although this often causes trouble for men who have a tendency to ejaculate too soon because of the high friction and tension in the muscles that the position causes, the trick is to withdraw your manhood from her vagina and hold it when you sense you're going to ejaculate. Only when your sensations have subsided should you resume penetration. You may not succeed on your first attempt but with enough practice, this little technique works pretty well for delaying ejaculation.
I'd really encourage you to experiment more with different positions until you discover others that give both of you pleasure and more staying power to you.
Here's the rule of thumb though: always start slow and keep the tempo steady. One of the surest ways to ejaculate too fast is to start thrusting right out of the gates and getting yourself too excited. If you can avoid that pitfall, you can certainly mitigate the fever for yourself. For her, on the other hand, it will be more fever than she's ever experienced before!
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